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I would have never guessed that 2006 ... started out with me working in a job I liked, but was getting more stressful everyday. The first weekend of 2006 was spent in a great training session in southern MO, followed by another seminar in Orlando, FL in February. Our plan to be out of debt, finish school, and make some updates seemed years away.
I was used to being asked when we were ever going to have kids, but for
the first time I was asked if I was pregnant. Supposedly I have a
glow. I was certified in adult and child CPR In April, I said good bye to my job and James and I were down to one income for the first time since we were married. We had a roommate from February to May.
I was pretty restless without any good job prospects in the horizon by
the time May rolled around. Although I've witnessed the impossible
turn possible, the situation still seemed ... impossible- ha! Little
did I know. During this time I found out that I can pick up
the pace with my school work. So I set a goal of being finished with
my degree by August 2006. Part
of me thought I was nuts, the other part didn't care. I locked myself
in my room, day and night studying. I only saw the sun when I took my
books out in the yard with me...James, 110%, supported me and took over
a lot of the household chores. I had odd jobs here and
there; cleaning houses, getting hung up on for 8 hours strait while
doing surveys, etc. Nothing that I liked and nothing permanent. As
each job came and went, the more my heart sank just a little wondering
why I left a perfectly good job at the clinic for a lack of
over-the-top stress. This was also the time when we decided to
up our giving to 15% ... talk about a bad time to start that up! But we
did. And it has made all the difference...I wouldn't have done it
differently for anything. Things were tight, but looking back, they
weren't really...we always had what we needed....and wanted. We lived
within our means. Then I had some people want to buy some of my cleaning products, that James and I had been making for our own home. So, in a round about way, I started a profitable business producing my own line of chemical free cleaning products.... I was rehired at my job with James, the one I had before I ventured out....and was able to pick up right where I left off. I was thrilled, my boss was thrilled, and I still smile about it. It doesn't even feel like it has been 7 months... I watched The Steve and Kathy Show on TV for the first time and witnessed the first ever call that came in. Summer was a blur
TV shoots, wardrobe shopping, school, school, school, HHH, running the
first business of my career, working full time, church, and sadly
enough not very much time with friends. But the time that was spent
with them was marvelous! Then came that infamous last weekend in August. I graduated with my Bachelor of Science degree in Holistic Nutrition. And went to San Diego that very week....what a trip! I got a tan, a haircut, and a break all in one. We drove down Mexico's
Baja coast and had some very fresh and cheap lobster with some of my
grandma's native friends. James was the best man in Craig and
Catherine's wedding. After spending several loaded days with my
relatives James and I ventured on up to LA, where we went to the most
fabulous spa ever! September brought about a shift in the TV
shoots for me, no longer was I doing the shopping. I had new hours for
greeting and for the HHH. Plus to top it all off, James and I stopped
"Clean". It wasn't the right time...we needed to rewrite the biz plan.
But out of it all came close to 20 one-of-a-kind recipes for chemical
free products. After all, they are the only products our house have
ever seen, and I had awesome reviews from my customers...believe me,
it's not the end of that yet! I also had a falling out with a
good friend of mine. My heart was ripped out, I wasn't the same but,
the sun came up the next morning...why doesn't it stop on the account of me?, and I had to keep going on.
My week's worth of a tan was fading, I was still a little in shock that
I had no school work, that my schedule was cut in half and that it was
October already. October was wonderful. Simple and slow. My family threw me an awesome graduation party.
Meanwhile, James and I kept pushing and pushing towards are big goal of
getting out of debt. You heard the phrase "when we're out of debt…" a
lot around our house and among our friends! ...we had a plan, we had
the drive, we were responsible and nothing was going to change
that....well, except for a divine interference. James
was promoted and given a huge bonus that (in a little while here) will
completely pay off everything we owe, except for our mortgage! (Thank
you lord!!). I don't believe this would have turned out the way it did
had we not shown God how trustworthy we are. Last year we
predetermined how much we would give to God when money came in, like
birthday money, Christmas money, and other incomes, etc....and we were
faithful to our word. We didn't cheat God out of one penny! Every bit
of grad money that I promised to God was given to him, and so on...and
just a little FYI: The amount we're getting is larger that what we gave
into the kingdom this entire year...and that's a lot. It sorta makes my head spin.
If it weren't for what we are learning at WRC...I don't know where we'd
be!! Probably just like everyone else who struggles and depends on
every hour to pay them....not us, man!! The lord is our provider and
because we are faithful to him, he HAS BEEN faithful to us!! We invest
in the blessed! This month I booked tickets to attend my cousin's wedding in Pittsburgh, PA. James
and I fly out this Saturday morning – bright and early. The kind of
early where I'll need to wear my sun glasses on the plane because of
the morning sun glare. Besides reaching the lowest financial
point and our highest financial point all in one year, I was also
amazed at the amount of work I can actually get done....and it paid
off. I was stretched, I cried, and kept on....and well, I lived. It's
simple. My friend and I reunited and cleared the air with
everything. Why did we wait 3 months? I hope that type of thing never
happens to me again as long as I live. The water business
seems more promising than ever. I hope to have a hand in some of the
details. And we learned we have some shares in the business. Thankseasmas, lots of weddings, lots of
engagements, and my favorite part...lots of friends. This year I've
gotten closer to some great people and I wouldn't change it for the
world. I've learned to fast from worry. I've learned that I need to be so debt free that no one even owes me a thank you.... I've learned to communicate certain things and not communicate others. I've learned that I don't like split level homes and that James is still amazing. This year was a whirl wind, next year …. Will probably be like no other! Oh,
and I learned that I LOVE LOVE LOVE my friends, my family, and my
husband. I didn't just learn it this year, but when I think
back...it's the people that have made this year all it was. It's the
place where I spend my time and the laughs and moments I spend with the
ones I love. And one last thing: I learned how to really pray and get results. |